MisterF
Senior Member
No offence but your posts do have a certain nostalgia to them. There's an air of 'kids these days' in all the posts by you and fresh lamenting technology and musical tastes.Your argument would have far more credibility if it didn't resort to making this personal about me, dismissing me as just being 'nostalgic' in other words...
Why not? I train in Brazilian jiu jitsu but I've done some kickboxing too. Almost everyone I know plays one sport or another or has a gym routine. You'd be surprised how many of them don't do the traditional gym. They do stuff like hockey, baseball, soccer, ultimate frisbee, wall climbing, volleyball, or in my case BJJ.kickboxing? Really??
That's just it though, the average person in the city is doing those things. The average person has a social life and goes out and does things when they're not working, even if it's just going to tapas bars. And as for eHarmony and Grindr, those things do result in actual dates (well, I assume they do in the case of the latter). And those dates are often just the kinds of things that you think average people don't do. That's what all those people you see in the streets and parks and businesses every day are doing, they're not just corporate zombies staring at their smartphones and tv screens all night. Again, no offence, but you seem pretty out of touch with how younger generations live their lives.No, i'm talking about how the average Joe and Jane lived their life in the city, not just ravers and tight-rope walkers (and raving is like so 20 years ago by the way, just saying'):
You make it sound like the average person in the city is doing any of the things you mentioned. They are not! The average person is at home every night flipping through 3,000 channels on their flat-screen T.V. while surfing Eharmony or Grindr (depending on what they're looking for)... and I'd be surprised if even 5% of the population has stepped foot inside of an art gallery over the past year (adjusting for Nuit Blanche perhaps). No, the record shop experience was pretty universal and regular, as was going to the movies, out to dance, date, cruise Yonge, meet friends etc., things people had to do to interact before iPhones.
I remember going down to Sam, Music World, HMV etc to buy new cassette albums (I'm not old enough for vinyl) and while people looked forward to release dates and rushed to the stores after school it wasn't really some out of the ordinary social experience as far as I remember. Just walk into the store, flip through the albums, and get the one you wanted.
Yes people have become device zombies these days, but those people you see filling up the cafes, patios, parks and other public spaces are having a good time, not just sitting by themselves looking at their phones. A place like Trinity Bellwoods wasn't a place you hung out back in the day since it had more of a reputation of being a place where the hobos slept. Now it's pretty much filled up with young people on the weekends during the warm months. The same goes for many other parks around the city. People did go to the park in the past but I don't recall them having as many people as they do now, and same goes for the beaches (unless you go way back to the sunnyside days).
There are other places full of people that didn't have much going on in the past like the King West area (including all those clubs), Yorkville, and Bloor West Village to name a few.
I remember how hardly anyone went out on Sundays since barely anything was open, there wasn't much to do in the evenings since many places would close by 7, and the people in the city just didn't have many places to go eat on a night out. The city had a very milquetoast feel. Nowadays there is some festival or another going on every weekend and yes people do show up. There are countless eateries serving food from all over the world that aren't just sitting there empty.
Agreed with pretty much all of this. There are so many neighbourhoods that were dead or straight up nonexistent 40 years ago that today are thriving and filled with people.
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