Urban Shocker
Doyenne
Please, don't patronize us.
I know its you and your mate's favorite mantra, but it has absolutely nothing to do with 'not seeing it'.
Nobody is wrong here or conversely, 'not seeing the picture'. Our tastes in architecture are just divergent.
Its as simple as that.
The idea that tastes differ and therefore all opinions are equal is a starting point for developing discriminating faculties, not an arrival point. Some architects are more talented than others, and some observers are more able to tell the difference between what's good and what's less good and what's downright awful, that's all.