so many new home buyers in the old city of Toronto for instance have to essentially gut their houses, perhaps somewhat because of "outdated" style but largely because of a huge deficit in investment previous owners had been living off.
Aw...but that is dictated by market forces. The only places you see complete guts, are on properties that have escolated in value to warrant such an investment. The immigrant couple who bought the old bay'n gable in the 1960's for $40k didn't have the desire or the financial resources to gut the place. Now that the same house is worth $700k, and purchased by those who desire the fineries dictated by their demographic, it happens.
This is the same anywhere, the difference being, Toronto is still full of residental streets of "affordable" homes. You expect a little too much I think.
I don't find the lack of pristine streets the issue, but rather heaved sidewalks, poorly patched sidewalks, pothole filled roads, antique hydro poles, rusted lamp standards, etc.
Ok...that's a reasonable arguement.
If Toronto somehow does worse at these things than other cities (and I think a lot of this is a case of grass-is-greener syndrome), than again, it's a case of Toronto simply being a more affordable city. Other city centres
may be in better shape regarding these things you mentioned...but at what cost?
You certainly couldn't afford to live there, as the taxes and prices exclude all but the wealthy.
I think Toronto is a healthy compromise...I think the infastructure overall is pretty good, and extremely livable and affordable for all. At the same time it offers up almost New York/London/Paris etc levels of culture and urban experiences. Very few places can offer that kind of value package.
But there's also nothing wrong with expecting better, and being vocal about it...I certainluy don't advocate complacency...just a little perspective.