EnviroTO
Senior Member
A grown, mature woman trying to do her job shouldn't be subjected to shit logic curses just because she has no control over what race she was born into. Neither should I, and this constant defense of what I thought would be a rational discussion on race is getting tiresome.
Was she called the n-word because the guy thinks of all black people a certain way or did he call her the n-word because he thought of her in a certain way.
Your life experiences are a world apart of mine I'd imagine so please don't insinuate either myself or other blacks who haven't sought out to hurt others by race should be victim of racism themselves.
Hurting "by race" is bad but other hurting is fine?
Agreed, calling someone a nigger isn't racism !
The rolling eyes don't make it convincing. When Chris Tucker says "what's up my n-word" is it or is it not racism. You can't say the n-word is always racism and at the same time say it isn't always racism.
In response to 'asshole' there's a zillion things he could of thought up instead of taking the easy, obvious, brain-dead route of insult.
There are a zillion things better she could say rather than call him an a-hole. Is calling someone an a-hole the complicated, non-obvious, civilized response?
I guess he's exemplar of how ignorant some memebers of society truly appear to be on the inside.
You think he is ignorant. She thinks the parking attendant is the void in the middle of an anal sphincter. The guy has two arm, two legs, clothing, a head... obviously he isn't an a-hole. What was she thinking. Duh! Someone should show her pictures of an a-hole so she can tell them apart in the future.
For several blacks it is the daily struggle.
I don't disagree. However I don't think a heated exchange of words is any more a struggle than other people experience. If she had been a blonde he may have called her a dumb bimbo and the end result is he had a stinging insult in response to a vulgarity. Some people would be very insulted being called an a-hole, some people would shrug off being called the n-word. Each persons sensitivity is different. In addition a large number of blacks live without any daily struggle. Some integrate easily and others do not.
Race-specific curse words are particularly vial and demeaning given Africa and Asia's shared colonial pasts. We should be united on the charge to put away verbal machetes, not on opposing sides!
You seem to think that somehow an insult towards black people is a major infraction but insults to other groups is somehow less so. If you haven't been a Chinese being called names (i.e. the ethnic group brought over to work on the railroad in poor conditions), Japanese (i.e. the group who were put in camps during the world war despite being Canadians), Jewish, Kosovar, physically weak, mentally weak, a non-black person with low self-esteem, a brainiac in a phys-ed class, fat, bulimic, etc... how can you be so certain that the n-word is so much worse than every other insult. How can you be so certain that growing up in a poor single parent white family with parental abuse isn't more difficult than growing up black.
An insult is an insult. People shouldn't be insulting people. Insulting and name calling is not civilized and achieves no worthy benefit. No insult is intelligent and well thought out. The only thought in people's minds when people are quickly coming up with an insult is a way to hurt the person emotionally. A successful insult, uncivilized as may be, is the one that isn't easily shrugged off. Unless you have never called someone names or insulted someone you can't claim to be innocent of trying to hurt someone emotionally.