DENTROBATE54
Banned
No one has inferred that here. What we're saying is that everyone is an individual, and an individual's culture and identity are far more than the sum of their parents' culture, and that everyone should be free to choose their own path and which cultural traits they wish to follow or reject.
But isn't that just as easily applicable to them brushing their teeth, doing chores around the house, obeying curfews, acting mannered around houseguests, etc? Where does parental disciplinary action end and child rebellion in the name of freedom and independence begin? Children need boundaries otherwise one aversion from the house rules could become a slippery slope into further adverse/high-risk lifestyles and behaviours. If you choose a lifestyle that you know is infinitely taboo from your family's perspective why risk losing your relationship with them by deliberately acting out in front of them? It's so easy for someone to claim they're tolerant of everyone's lifestyle choices til the day arrives that they're personally confronted by it. Luckily I hope the majority of families can cope and adjust without the outcomes of black sheep, runaways, verbal/physical molestations or murders.
Maybe they're voiceless because you keep talking over them and acting as if you know all about who is oppressed, why they are oppressed, what they are thinking and what they are feeling.
I have somewhat expertise in psychology, early childhood development, world issues courses I've taken through high school/university to apply some of what I know to this subject. I know I don't have all the answers but some rash generalizations I've read here compelled me to counter those views.