I find your comments about the park in Etobicoke a bit misguided. I've gone through there many times, and frankly its quite crowded, and very beautiful. The condo developements are a mess, granted, but the park itself is gorgeous. A few quotes:
"except for people quickly jogging or cycling through" - Are these not appropriate uses for a park?
"There isn't even a restaurant, coffee shop or store to get a drink." - why is the equation "commercial establishments" = "Urbanity" so prevalent on this forum? Stanley Park, where you can sit and watch mist rise off of Beaver Lake in the morning, remains an intensely urban place. The failure to understand that is unfortunate.
"That park seems to be built only for the people who live in the nearby condos." - you make this claim twice, but as part of the waterfront trail system the park is very accessible to a wide range of people. I've been there dozens of times and I live near Maple Leaf Gardens.
"There is nothing to bring people to this park, except the view of Toronto" - or, the view of the lake. Or the butterfly gardens - or, the public art - or, watching other people stroll on a summer's evening - or, the sunrise.
"a people place with an aquarium" - again, this mania for commercial uses. An aquarium, like, you have to pay to get in and the money goes to someone else - that's more of a people place than a publicly accessible park? It's also a terrible place for an aquarium - since it's not very accessible and aquariums don't attract traffic on their own - they work best as part of a set of attractions. Also, an aquarium brings with it a big huge parking lot and school buses and crap like that. The notion that an aquarium should go there actually makes me value the condos that much more.
Perhaps I'm not being fair by critiquing esp's post in such detail, but I completely don't understand the attitudes expressed. I do think the waterfront would have been better with some retail/commercial component, like a nice architect-designed restaurant somewhere out near the water, a la Vancouver, but the absence of that also isn't a big problem for me.