If I hated the city ... and apparently the whole continent so ... I'd wonder why I was here, and move to somewhere with better transit. I hear that Sochi has a great LRT!
I wish I could move to Barcelona, but unfortunately I am not a EU citizen.
I do think the Europe city layout, particular cities like Paris and Barcelona with a small and compact core with extensive public transit, works best for my needs. Barcelona's urban design and traffic flow is simply amazing. For example, for its wide streets, it has a sidewalk for pedestrians, then a bus lane, then center island for pedestrians and bikes only, and then 3 or 4 car lanes. isn't that wonderful? Be a pedestrian, you feel you own the street and are never overwhelmed by the passing cars. Narrower streets are mostly one way, but the sidewalk is safe enough, and the surroundings urban enough (think King East between Church and Parliament) so that you don't feel the cars that much. Our one way streets such as Richmond/Adelaide don't work because these street themselves are used as back alleys for King and Queen, and there is no shops, restaurants, green space, arts and sculptures on them (even the entrance of Bay on Richmond is often closed). So don't blame one way streets, blame the street furniture.
Then look at our University ave, Spadina Ave or Jarvis st, all pretty wide. There are some sidewalks, but most of space are dedicated to 6-8 lanes of personal cars, sometimes mixed with public transit. Look at King and Queen, the poor streetcars have to share lanes with hundreds of personal cars at all time. This has nothing to do pre-auto or post-auto history. This is simply "put car first" philosophy and bad urban design. It pisses off both drivers and transit users.
I don't hate the city - I just find many of the practices here very backward, and people are too suburban. I am utterly unhappy and dissatisfied with the urban design and transport in Toronto because it is inferior, but it is not always up to me where to live, is it?