Riverdale Rink Rat
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Fat shaming reflects on the person doing it, not the person it's directed at. Remember that, people.
I'm living on an island where there's a full-blown Type II diabetes epidemic due to the 'meat and three starches' diet. Fat people call themselves fat, have 'big & beautiful beauty contests', try to diet & fail, lose weight, gain weight, stay the same weight. We all talk about it. It's not fat-shaming, it's just an observation.
Rob Ford is obese. He has, remarkably, stayed obese or even gained weight through multiple rounds of chemo and radiation. Pointing that out is no more 'fat-shaming' than calling the sky blue. 'Fat-shaming' is when your mother comes up to you and says, 'Dear, are you sure you want dessert. Your pants are looking a little tighter than usual. In fact, you've really let yourself go.' It's amazing to me how sensitive some people can be about that particular physical attribute.
Sorry to hear about your father, Filip. Best wishes to him.