After selling a house in Windsor, Ontario at a loss... I know the feeling of a market that goes south. Yes, I know bitterness. I know what writing a cheque to the bank feels like when you sell a house. I understand what an underwater mortgage feels like. I will never ever do that again in my lifetime. I don't know what losing a house feels, or losing a job feels like... but I suppose it's like being told you have cancer... that it feels like your world is collapsing... but you know what... eventually it doesn't feel so bad, eventually you move on with life. You accept it and you put your energy into dealing with what you can change in your life.
I've talked with my friends that have underwater mortgages from the United States that live in the suburbs of Detroit... yeah it sucks that you're paying for something that is worth less that what you owe. Yeah, it sucks, that some people got rewarded and have purchased foreclosed homes for $20K... but you know life isn't always fair... nor does everything work out perfectly as you thought it would when you made the decision that you now regret.
Karma sometimes gets back at you... and sometimes she rewards you for being for your patience, and for what pain you go through on your journey... I don't need to be greedy, I don't need to have steel balls, and I certainty don't have to give respect to the real estate industry nor do I need to cheerlead from the sidelines for higher prices for homes that are unaffordable for the average citizen. But, maybe I and other individuals in Canada in the future need to earn what a Foxconn worker gets paid to build an iPad... to truly understand unbalanced global income inequality.
Sometimes what we don't wish for is truly what we deserve.
Macookie: A few thoughts on this post:
I can tell you as someone who is a bit older and with lots of grey (white) hair; I have heard it said again and again and by some quite wealthy people: If you don't have your health, you have nothing. so I think the example relating to cancer is perhaps a bit extreme. Of course people deal with it but it is devastating and all the talk of financial wealth destruction is not in the same league in my view.
I don't wish ill to anyone. Of course in the financial world, when blood is in the water, the sharks pool. So some business decisions end up being great money makers, and some unfortunately lose money. As such, when the market goes down as it did in your Windsor example; you lose money. then, hopefully, the ship rights itself and you make money which i believe you eluded to if I recall correctly in some purchases in Toronto which have gone up.
I have often said it pays to be smart but it is better to be lucky. If you happen to be at the right place at the right time you can make decisions that look great. The reality is that anyone who bought any realestate in Toronto in the past 10 years (save for a brief 8-9 month period at the end of 2008 to 2009) made money on paper at least.
I recall people I knew who moved to Vancouver in the mid 1980's from Toronto and people who moved the other way. Those who moved to TO made money and those who moved to Vancouver lost. I even recall some people who moved out west and then back and lost twice and people who went the other way and doubled up their money. In both cases they were Air Canada pilots who transferred. One went from a $100K home to a $500K home and the other went from $200 to $100K essentially. Just because they happened to go in opposite directions. So there will always be "bad karma" and "good karma".
Personally, I feel people should be able to afford a roof over their head if they wish to put in the work and buy it. I think it is sad that housing has become a commodity because it results in it trading as such. Most people can avoid the stock market and simply not invest. A roof over one's head however is not always an elective choice. True one can rent but I believe one should be able to buy at a reasonable price if one has the desire. But that is the socialist in me I guess.
The above said, I agree with you that all of this is not a reason to throw common sense and rationality to the wind. You have clearly stated that you feel the market is overpriced. As ka1 says; time will tell. I happen to agree with you. If the market continues to rise for the next 2-3 years, we will at least in the short term, both be proven wrong. If it retreats, you can at least say you used common sense and in that case were proven right.
My feeling is that all on this forum and elsewhere should make rational thought out decisions. Obviously we won't all be right but at least one can afterwards look at it if the decision is wrong and at least console oneself that one made a decision with the best information at the time as opposed to looking if the decision was wrong and made just because the herd moved in a direction and console oneself with the thought that one threw caution and rationality to the wind.
sorry for the long winded post.